This is how we do it: I can only orgasm fantasising about other men. My husband loves it'

The catalyst for my first orgasm was a crush I developed on a colleague. We shared a kiss one day in his office, and the lust I felt in that split second was like an electric shock.

I finally found a vibrator that did the trick. The first time I managed to orgasm, it was such a relief I actually felt cross with Peter. I turned to him and said: Why didn't you tell me an orgasm was that good?

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