My Wife Becomes an Anxious Monster Preparing for Vacation. Why Can't She Just Chill Out?
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Have you confronted your wife about her behavior before trips and major events? It's possible that she doesn't know how much her own struggles with these moments are impacting you. Let her know that while you love traveling with her, the time leading up to your trips can be absolutely miserable.
Acknowledge that she, too, is struggling in these moments and that it's time for things to improve. Ask her to share just what makes her so anxious and stressed out about big events and how you can help to alleviate that. When it comes to planning and logistics, offer to take on a bigger role and ask that she be patient with you regarding your ability to execute up to her standard.
Read at Slate Magazine
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