I Have a Delusional Obsession With an Old Lover. It's Making Me Do Something Very Bizarre.
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Remember that pursuing fantasies can be done ethically, either through creative roleplay with your spouse or considering a consensually non-monogamous arrangement that fosters excitement.
Reframe your memories of past relationships positively; although you can't pursue the person, the memories can still offer enjoyment without impacting your current marriage.
Read at Slate Magazine
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