It's worth considering why you became suspicious of your husband and went snooping. If this points to a larger lack of trust in your relationship, it's a concern.
You can't really control whether your partner feels embarrassed or even judged when you tell him what you saw. You can, however, choose your approach carefully to reduce his chances of reacting poorly.
You might soften the blow by starting with, "I apologize for violating your privacy." It’s important to acknowledge how you found out.
Consider whether you want to offer to engage in that kind of sexual interaction if he's interested—this shows acceptance of his interests.
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