Harriette Cole: A teen in my care has fallen for a boy with a bad reputation
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Tread lightly. Your niece is at the age when whatever you say, she may do the opposite. You cannot force her to dump this man.
Instead, invite her to talk about values. Ask her what she wants for her life. Suggest that she think about the qualities she wants in a partner.
Get her to tell you what she likes about this man. Find out from her if there is anything she doesn't like.
Finally, because she is in a relationship, offer to take her to the doctor for a full exam and birth control. Protect her in any way you can.
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