The article reflects on personal narratives that challenge societal norms surrounding marriage and family. The narrator, after experiencing a fulfilling 20-year relationship with her soulmate, finds peace in her widowhood. She appreciates the joy of her past while savoring her independence and rich friendships. Moreover, she critiques societal pressures to conform to milestones like getting married and having children, suggesting they often lead to disenchantment. Through her experience, she highlights the choice to live authentically, finding meaning in her journey without traditional expectations.
I never wanted to be married and have children, but I wanted a partner and soulmate. After a long-term relationship ended, I found my soulmate in my 30s. We loved each other for 20 years until his untimely death.
Most of us are raised to believe that as we age, there are milestones in life that everyone needs to reach - getting married, buying a house, having kids, traveling the world in retirement, etc.
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