Sarah Jones-Green, who saved herself for marriage due to her strong Christian values, faced an unexpected medical challenge on her wedding night. At age 44, she tried to have sex for the first time with her husband, Martin Green, only to find it painful due to a microperforate hymen. She is now awaiting surgery to address this condition, expressing frustration about her situation and longing to feel like a 'normal' newlywed. Sarah's experience reflects her personal beliefs regarding intimacy and the challenges that can arise from those values.
I'm a virgin bride - and I don't want to be - having sex would make me feel like a 'normal' newlywed. I didn't have any inkling about this condition before, I literally only realized something was wrong when Martin and I tried to have sex for the first time. I'd waited such a long time - I just wanted to experience what everyone else has. It's frustrating, and I've been feeling really down about it.
From a young age, Sarah says she knew her beliefs wouldn't allow having sex before marriage - but she says it was a very personal decision. She describes herself as a "modern woman" who doesn't judge others for anything they choose to do - but she couldn't see herself losing her virginity to a man she wasn't married to.
She also saw intimacy as 'something special' and didn't want to lose her virginity to a one-night stand or casual fling.
Sarah is now on the waiting list for a hymenectomy - a surgical procedure to remove extra tissue from the hymen - and says being able to have sex would make her feel 'complete.'
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