The article highlights the challenges faced by individuals, particularly women, when receiving backhanded compliments related to their appearance. A specific incident involving a character named Julie illustrates how such remarks, often delivered under the guise of friendliness, can carry underlying disrespect and judgment, particularly towards larger individuals. In this scenario, the protagonist feels further distanced from the one she loves due to Julie's comment, revealing the emotional complexity and frustration inherent in social interactions surrounding love and body image.
"You have such a pretty face. There has to be someone who can help you move on from Mr. Merman."
"Telling a big girl she has a pretty face is a backhanded compliment."
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