I make it known off the bat that I like to take things slow. I watch for 'love bombing' - if he's way too into me for how little he actually knows me, I know he is only in it for sex. Or, he's 'love bombing' and probably doesn't really care about my personality.
This is exactly who I am. I once went out with a guy who declared his love to me on the first date. Like, come on, dude - you don't even know my favorite color or my middle name. I think some men feel as though women are dumb.
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