The letter expresses a deep concern about the relationship's state, highlighting differences in social preferences and misaligned priorities. One partner feels pressured to maintain consistent communication, while the other feels guilty for not meeting those expectations, leading to a sense of walking on eggshells. Despite discussions about improvement, the situation remains unchanged. The writer is unsure whether to continue the relationship or to wait for things to improve, suggesting a significant mismatch in emotional investment and expectations.
Sometimes I feel like we spend more time living separate lives, as we have different hobbies and friend groups.
He wants us to make sure to video call every night before we go to bed on the days we are apart.
He does make me feel guilty about it and tells me that if I was serious about our relationship, I would make time.
Your experience could be summed up as feeling like walking on eggshells.
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