David Jay argues passionately that society’s belief that non-sexual individuals cannot form meaningful relationships is fundamentally flawed, stating, 'They tell you if you're not sexual, you're going to be alone forever. Those things aren't true! I've lived my life proving those things aren't true.' His deep commitment to advocating for asexuality informs his mission, emphasizing the richness of non-sexual relationships and the need for visibility in the larger societal context.
Reflecting on his personal journey, Jay recalls the confusion he felt during puberty when he was 'sitting there waiting for this thing to happen to me,' which ultimately spurred his search for understanding his asexual identity. This pivotal moment highlights the struggle many asexual individuals face in a world that constantly equates sexual attraction with personal fulfillment and connectivity.
Jay's founding of asexuality.org at the young age of 18 marked a significant turning point for the asexual community, establishing a vital space for discussion and support. He notes, 'This community is really new. The definition for asexuality was just added to the Webster's Dictionary in 2017.' This highlights the ongoing journey towards recognition and acceptance for people identifying as asexual.
Despite a small percentage of the population identifying as asexual, studies indicate that about 1% may fall on the asexual spectrum. Jay's efforts have played a crucial role in promoting understanding and reducing stigma, demonstrating how community engagement can lead to broader societal acceptance.
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