Years Ago, My Husband Was in an "Adult Film." It's Only a Matter of Time Before Our Kids Find Out.

"The internet is forever, sure, but there's a lot of it, which means some, if not most, will be forgotten or otherwise lost to time. Does the past of every mope follow him around? I doubt it."

"One course of action is to simply let the past stay there and not mention this at all to your kids, hoping that no one will point it out to them."

"If your family is open about sexuality, imposes no shame on the use and production of porn, and has navigated conversations that others might deem difficult, you could have the conversation now."

A parent is concerned about revealing their husband's past in adult films to their teenage children. The article suggests that while the internet preserves information, not all pasts are widely recognized. It proposes that remaining silent may be an option, as the children might not discover the past on their own. However, if the family is open about sexuality, having the conversation could be beneficial. The timing and approach depend on the family's values and the potential impact on the children.

Read at Slate Magazine