Recent research by Eastwick and Joel reveals that the traits we think we want in a partner don't reliably predict relationship satisfaction. Their review indicates that while people often categorize traits they find attractive, such as ambition or physical appearance, these traits do not correlate strongly with actual satisfaction in relationships. Furthermore, significant elements regarding whether someone will be a good match remain unknown at the start, emphasizing that our preconceived notions of attraction may mislead us in our choices.
In evaluating potential partners, we don't know how it will feel to spend time with them.
You can ask people all day what they find attractive in a partner, but none of the many traits people list... predict how satisfied people are with their relationships.
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