#relationship-satisfaction

#relationship-satisfaction

Relationships thrive or falter on the smallest of cues: a shared laugh, a thoughtful gesture, or, surprisingly, perhaps, a simple two-word phrase. Too often, we rely on complaint, criticism, or avoidance to signal what we want. What partners really need is a clear expression of our desires: "I want..." Why are these two words so powerful? Because they signal want, rather than suggesting blame. Because they articulate current needs, rather than hinting at past neglect.

People often ask, "How can I make my relationship better?" For some, that means improving affection, attraction, and general relationship satisfaction. For others, it means turning up desire, passion, and overall sexual satisfaction, too. Therefore, I'm always on the lookout for new research that helps people increase their loving connection and sensual chemistry-especially when the "fix" is relatively simple and easy to add to a relationship routine.

Both children and partners of narcissistic people report a lack of satisfaction in their relationships with them. (1, 2) They mention such themes as insecurity in relationships, unrealistic expectations, a negative or fragile sense of self and difficulty with intimacy, as well as infidelity. (2,3) Narcissism is also connected with aggression, which in turn is negatively linked with the partner's relationship satisfaction. (2)

It is through communication that partners share their feelings, hopes, and dreams, allowing them to create a shared vision for their future. The communication style adopted within a relationship can significantly impact how partners relate to one another. Effective communication skills lead to meaningful exchanges that ensure both partners feel heard and understood, while lack of open dialogue may lead to misunderstandings and unmet needs, ultimately affecting relationship satisfaction.

Your partner sees your potential. Let's say Nancy wants to become an accomplished artist. She begins dating Sam, who immediately admires her artistic perspective on life and her paintings. Their view shapes how they treat you. Because of how Sam views Nancy, he naturally encourages her to pursue her career in art-both when she is struggling to get any attention as an artist as well as when her work is shown in a new gallery.

When it comes to romantic relationships, there are numerous ways in which neuroticism may undermine relationships. Neuroticism is associated with negative emotion, which itself is predictive of relationship failure; those high in neuroticism are prone to complaining, may interpret innocuous comments as criticism, and are generally somewhat dissatisfied with, and critical of, most things in their environment including their partner.

"How often should we be having sex?" I hear this question at least once a week. From my therapy room to my circles of friends to social media. This question is out there, lingering. And like most people, I've seen countless opinions. I'm not here to offer another one or add to the confusion or pressure. Instead, I want to explain why this is the wrong question to be asking in the first place.

"I have to repeat myself because he's scrolling Instagram. It makes me feel invisible," one participant of the 2025 study mentioned.

"Love is when the other person's happiness is more important than your own." - H. Jackson Brown

Regular relationship check-ins can improve relationship satisfaction by addressing issues early, preventing them from escalating into larger problems that threaten the partnership.

Relationship satisfaction is important for happiness, mental well-being, and physical health. A recent study identified investment strategies that enhance relationship satisfaction.