"A vow is often a fear-based agreement made in childhood to survive. It doesn't need to be spoken aloud for it to be taken on; it only needs to be believed."
"A vow is a sacred agreement made at the soul level, often in a moment of fear or survival, that the psyche continues to honor throughout our lives."
"Breaking a vow requires addressing body, mind, and spirit, not insight alone. These vows shape behavior long into adulthood and are similar to core beliefs or protective parts."
Many gay men unknowingly make vows in childhood as survival mechanisms. These vows, akin to core beliefs, shape behavior throughout life. They are often formed in moments of fear and can be unspoken agreements that dictate how one perceives themselves. For instance, a child may vow to be 'the best little boy' to cope with feelings of being different. Breaking these vows necessitates addressing emotional, mental, and spiritual aspects, rather than relying solely on insight.
Read at Psychology Today
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