Neurodiverse couples often face communication challenges where one partner's recollection of events radically differs from the other’s. For instance, a typical exchange over dinner requests can lead to accusations and feelings of betrayal, as each partner interprets and recollects the situation differently. The neurotypical partner may feel invalidated and think the autistic partner is gaslighting or misunderstanding, while the autistic partner feels misunderstood and blamed. These misunderstandings arise from the distinct cognitive processes of neurotypical and autistic individuals, leading to conflicts in perspectives and emotional responses.
The neurotypical wife might think her husband is not considering her feelings, while the husband believes he is meeting her needs based on his understanding of her request.
Exchanges between neurodiverse couples can lead to feelings of invalidation, betrayal, and confusion, as differences in perception often create misunderstandings in communication.
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