This is how we do it: In my 50s I want to be monogam-ish to have to have my cake and eat it'
Briefly

The couple's relationship began with some early sexual frustrations which led them to discover their shared interest in ethical non-monogamy. Their connection grew slowly, but ultimately built significant chemistry. They embraced a 'monogam-ish' lifestyle, rooted in mutual trust and respect, which allowed them to explore their sexual tendencies. While one partner's retired schedule facilitates meeting new people, it has also brought about feelings of unease regarding safety. The evolution of their relationship, initiated through openness, has strengthened their bond.
Our journey into ethical non-monogamy evolved from early sexual frustration but ultimately strengthened our bond through mutual trust and respect.
We refer to our relationship as monogam-ish, navigating our dynamic to embrace our sexual beings while maintaining a strong connection.
It began with me expressing a desire that was initially sensitive, but Gavin was receptive, and that openness led us to explore non-monogamy.
Gavin's flexibility in meeting people online enhances our relationship despite my reservations about safety, showing how we've evolved together.
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