This is how we do it: I didn't want to issue an ultimatum but sex is non-negotiable for me'
Briefly

The article discusses the struggles of a couple, particularly focusing on the man’s feelings of inadequacy and frustration as his relationship becomes sexless. After a decade together and a significant decline in intimacy post-Covid, he reflects on his questions regarding their attraction and connection. However, through open dialogue about desires and an emphasis on enjoyment rather than pressure, their sexual relationship improves significantly. This renewed intimacy has brought about a new stage in their marriage, enhancing both love and playfulness between them.
I started talking a lot more about my desires, about what I found really hot and attractive about her, and the things I would like to do with her.
Sex is non-negotiable for me. It's something that one can derive a huge amount of pleasure from, but it's also a reinforcement of love and intimacy.
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