This is how we do it: His disability might change the sex we have, but we'll adapt'

'We have a lot of non-sexual intimacy, which is extremely important. We can lie naked together without having sex, or we can have sex, or we can do any of a variety of things together, and I never have to worry about feeling vulnerable. That's been the most important component in maintaining a sex drive with him.'

'We tend to keep it pretty vanilla. I like to call it missionary-plus type positions, sometimes the more passive partner lying on their back, or doggy style, or oral. We always kiss and cuddle first, and we're big fans of skin-to-skin contact.'

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