A 29-year-old woman is troubled by her boyfriend's remarks during sex, particularly when he jokingly called her 'daughter,' triggering memories of her past trauma. Their relationship has not been committed, yet she finds his joke unsettling, considering its implications. Although he commonly utilizes humor and porn-related role-play in their intimacy, this incident has left her questioning whether his actions stem from fantasy or indicate deeper issues. Despite his apology, she grapples with how to navigate her feelings regarding the situation without sharing it with friends.
He watches a lot of porn and likes to make jokes. For example, he'll joke about us being step-siblings and ask for some sex from his sexy step sister.
The other day he took it further and called me 'daughter' during sex. This man is 30 and has no kids (but wants them), and it freaked me out.
As soon as he said it I said 'absolutely not' and stopped sex for a bit, and he apologized.
It's been a couple days, and I'm still running it through my head. How do I tell if it's purely a porn-inspired role play or if he is actually at risk of committing future incest?
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