The article explores how emotional control can manifest as spiritual rituals that, while intended as acts of love, may actually inflict trauma and create distance in intimate relationships. It tells Nico's story, a man who reflects on how his upbringing—characterized by distance and emotional absence—shaped his view of love. His experiences reveal that rituals often tied to care can inadvertently become coercive tools, leading victims to feel trapped and anxious, even as they strive for connection and autonomy.
Now in his forties, Nico stays connected to his parents through calls and support... But he hasn't visited in years. "If I talk about the pain, it might bleed too much," he said.
In some cultures, spiritual rituals are acts of care: A bracelet blessed for protection. A prayer whispered for love. These practices often come from love and tradition.
#emotional-trauma #spiritual-manipulation #intimate-relationships #coercive-control #cultural-practices
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