Secure Attachment Is Sexy, & Benny Blanco Is Proof
Briefly

Benny Blanco stands out in a dating culture filled with situationships and avoidant partners. His relationship with Selena Gomez showcases his emotional availability and support, positioning him as a new sex symbol. A marriage and family therapist notes that Blanco reflects emotional intelligence and vulnerability, traits often suppressed in men. His commitment to self-growth is evidenced by his willingness to attend therapy, showing he has the capacity for relational fulfillment. This marks a refreshing shift from superficial masculinity to a more engaged and emotionally aware partnership.
What a concept! Blanco does seem like a diamond in the rough in a culture that socializes men to suppress what might be considered 'feminine' qualities like vulnerability, collaborative connection, and being in touch with their emotional landscape.
Benny appears to have developed a great deal of emotional intelligence and bandwidth for staying with these types of conversations. We're tired of 'cool' men who haven't done their therapy.
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