"I knew I liked being tied up before I knew I was gay. Sadly, my boyfriend has no kinks, but he said he was open to mine. The first few times were great - I'd never been tied up by someone I was in love with before! - but now it only happens when I beg him for it."
"It's no fun being kink-shamed like this. But I can't live without bondage and he's not even willing to discuss opening our relationship, so me going off to get tied up by some guy who actually enjoys tying a boy up is a non-starter."
"DTMFA. That's your fix, BFD: dump the motherfucker already. Or if you're not ready to dump the motherfucker, BFD, you need to issue a credible threat to dump the motherfucker."
A 26-year-old man expresses frustration over his boyfriend's lack of interest in bondage, a key kink for him. Initially, the boyfriend was open, but now treats the kink as a chore. The man feels kink-shamed and struggles with the idea of seeking fulfillment elsewhere. He reflects on their relationship's quick progression and his hesitation to share his kinks. The advice given emphasizes the importance of kink compatibility and suggests considering ending the relationship if needs remain unmet.
Read at Portland Mercury
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