An exploration of why individuals cheat in relationships reveals deep-rooted issues such as fear of change and lack of communication. Many responders reflect on their actions with regret, often attributing their infidelity to environmental stressors or emotional abandonment. The discussion emphasizes the complexities of modern relationships, particularly as partners face challenges such as relocation, caregiving for special needs children, and feeling unsupported. It showcases a broader understanding of infidelity, illustrating that it's often a symptom of deeper relationship problems rather than mere betrayal.
"I really can't come up with a better reason other than fear. There was no emotional attachment to the guy I saw. It was just sex. When my ex returned, I told him what happened and explained how I felt. He was pissed, of course, but we worked through it, and he didn't take the job in NYC. I've stopped dealing with fear in such a poor manner now." - u/megandharma
"After having children and specifically special needs kids, I was living an hour away for several months at a time. Communication with my ex became really stagnant, and I begged and begged for support. He came to visit maybe five times while I was with our sick kid." - u/East-Event7783
"He abandoned the relationship, our family life, our social life, our everything, and put it on my shoulders. While he..."
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