"When someone shows you who they are, believe them." -u/LadyofHoss"
""And believe them the very first time." - u/bErSICaT"
""The first time it's said, it sounds harsh. Later, after a few burned bridges, wasted years, or 'I thought they'd change' situations, it landed like a fact of physics. That I can't change anyone." - u/mintleeaf"
When someone reveals their character, accept it immediately and adjust expectations accordingly. Believing the first clear sign prevents repeated hurt, burned bridges, and wasted years spent waiting for change. Expecting transformation from others often leads to disappointment because personal change requires willingness and effort that cannot be imposed. Recognizing patterns early supports healthier boundaries and more realistic relationships. Trusting observable behavior over hopeful interpretation conserves emotional energy and time. Accepting that people may not change encourages choosing relationships that align with one's needs and values. Making decisions on first impressions can be difficult but ultimately protective. Learning from past experiences refines judgment and self-preservation.
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