"Dear OnlyFans Outrage, You boil this down to not wanting strangers getting off to your wife, but there's more to this situation than just that. First, there is the fact that she lied about the source of her income boost. Then, there is the question of her responsibility to you/your arrangement (which sounds monogamous). And then there's the fact of others getting to partake in that which you believe you have the sole claim."
"She did it wrong. I don't know why she thought that she could do something as public as OnlyFans, lie about it, and not get caught, but ... she got caught. And it only took a few months. Big mistake. But she's still your wife, and if she's going to continue to be so, it's a mistake that warrants forgiving."
"But she's still your wife, and if she's going to continue to be so, it's a mistake that warrants forgiving. You should talk to her about why she felt the need to hide this information. The reasons may have nothing to do with you or they may reflect certain feelings she has about your social and/or sexual dynamic. It could be a fertile area of exploration and learning-a great thing to come from a not-great situation."
Six months after a wife claimed a promotion, her increased income is revealed to come from producing customized adult videos on OnlyFans. Her husband feels betrayed and equates the situation with cheating because strangers consume intimate content of his spouse and the mother of his children. The wife frames the work as a job and accuses him of possessiveness. The key issues are the wife's deception about earnings, the couple's likely monogamous expectations, and contested claims over exclusive sexual intimacy. The responder recommends discussing the lie, exploring the wife's reasons for secrecy, and considering forgiveness alongside candid communication and boundary-setting.
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