"Your wife is probably well aware that you feel having your semen swallowed is necessary for "the complete experience." What you're probably running into is the fact that she's got her own feelings, boundaries, and preferences. Depending on how much circular discussion or even argument has already taken place, you might be able to inquire about why she refuses to swallow and look for wiggle room there."
"Maybe she feels demeaned by the act. If so, consider whether other areas of your relationship cause her to feel less than respected. Perhaps swallowing makes her feel nauseous for several hours afterwards, in which case you might arrive at a very reasonable conclusion that your utterly perfect blowjob denouement isn't worth your wife spending half of the next day trying not to vomit."
Your wife likely knows that you view swallowing as integral to the experience, but she also has her own feelings, boundaries, and preferences. Ask her why she refuses and look for compromise or wiggle room. Possible reasons include unpleasant taste or texture, which can be reduced by better hydration or medical evaluation, and feelings of being demeaned, which may reflect broader issues of respect in the relationship. Swallowing can also cause prolonged nausea, making the act impractical. Balance desire against her comfort, explore alternatives or other finishes, and gather more information before pressuring her.
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