The article addresses a couple's sexual frustration due to scheduling constraints imposed by one partner's work schedule. The advice emphasizes that libido is not fair or equitable, and attempts to legislate intimacy could lead to coercion. Instead, the author suggests prioritizing quality time on days off or evenings free from early alarms to enhance intimacy. Understanding each other's needs and fostering open dialogue about desires can lead to more fulfilling sexual experiences. The focus should be on cooperation rather than enforcing fairness.
Libido is unruly and fickle, not responding impartially to judgments of fairness. Forcing someone into sex risks coercion and is counterproductive.
Consider what your days off look like together. Scheduling intimate time for when your wife doesn't worry about early alarms could enhance your sex life.
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