My mother and brother have terminal cancer. I'm worried I won't feel anything when they die.
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The article reflects on a person's journey from a strict religious upbringing to estrangement with their family. After being kicked out at 17 for rejecting the religious path, the individual faced homelessness, bitterness, and disconnection from family. Years later, as parents grappled with serious illness, the author was compelled to mend ties for the sake of their children. Though the relationship is not deeply profound, the writer acknowledges the importance of maintaining cordial connections with their family, emphasizing how children can serve as a bridge in strained family dynamics.
It was a difficult journey to mend my family ties, but children were my motivation to reach out, to ensure my parents knew their grandchildren.
Living in a deeply religious home, I learned that my worth was tied to appearances, leading to a painful estrangement from my family.
The bitterness towards my parents kept me distant for years; however, a desire for my children to know their grandparents softened that animosity.
Ultimately, I embraced a cordial relationship with my mother, driven by a commitment to my kids' family connections, despite the painful history.
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