Posthumous awards serve to celebrate community values and professional achievements rather than solely honoring the individual. The recognition of an accomplished career might conflict with the personal experiences of family members, particularly when they relate to parental involvement. Individuals facing this dilemma may feel uncomfortable with public praise when their familial relationship with the awardee was complex and affected by neglect or other issues. Engaging with these feelings and acknowledging the broader implications on professional norms could provide clarity on how to approach the situation.
Posthumous awards are not solely for the awardee; they serve the community by highlighting praiseworthy values in professional fields and promoting virtuous cultural norms.
While your father was recognized professionally, it’s understandable that his personal engagement, or lack thereof, with the family creates a conflict about honoring his legacy.
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