The article reflects on the contrast between two maternal figures in my life: my timid mother, who refrained from offering direction due to her past abuse, and Tamar, a vibrant woman who offered unconditional love and encouragement. While my mother inspired restraint and uncertainty, Tamar's strong presence and support profoundly shaped my emotional landscape. Tamar’s fierce advocacy and joy for life not only filled the gaps left by my mother but also instilled in me the importance of fully embracing life and expressing desires. Her absence after my breakup highlighted the emotional impact of her unwavering love.
Tamar's love and exuberance contrasted sharply with my mother's timidity and restraint, shaping my understanding of what unconditional love can ultimately look like.
'Whatever you think is best,' my mother would say, which left me feeling like an unclaimed suitcase. Tamar, however, encouraged me to take up more space.
In times of struggle, Tamar showed up without hesitation—she was always present, offering comfort and unconditional support, particularly during my hardest moments.
Tamar's perspective on life reminded me, 'We're all going to die, right? Life's too short not to do what your heart desires.' That's the spirit I craved.
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