A hard no from one partner may reveal crucial insights about their relationship. It's important to assess whether the partner can accept refusal without pressure. Continuing to push on hard limits may indicate deeper issues, suggesting self-centeredness or a fetish fixation. If a boundary is being disregarded, it may be necessary to evaluate the overall dynamic and consider future directions in the relationship. Ultimately, issuing a clear ultimatum can clarify intentions and set necessary boundaries for both individuals involved.
The first time we say no to someone is often when we find out how they actually act when it comes to respecting the boundaries of others.
Engaging in acts that are a hard no for you strikes me as going beyond good, giving, and game.
You may not be able to get through to your boyfriend that pegging isn't on the table. From there, you'll have to decide whether you want to leave the relationship.
I've said this is a hard limit for me on multiple occasions, and if you continue to pursue this, I will end our relationship.
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