The situation involves unresolved feelings regarding the lack of a wedding reception and bridal shower, which caused embarrassment and hurt. The couple desires recognition for their marriage but faces challenges with family dynamics and differing beliefs. A recommendation is made to let go of past grievances and celebrate their 10-year marriage with an anniversary party, suggesting a lighthearted approach to turn the situation positive and enjoyable, independent of family obligations or expectations.
It is unfortunate that your relatives behaved irresponsibly when you got married. And Miss Manners understands the importance of ceremonial traditions.
You will perhaps forgive her for saying that it is high time to let go of a wedding fantasy/grudge. You've had a successful marriage for more than 10 years.
Why aren't you celebrating? Throw yourselves an anniversary party in whatever style you like. If you maintain a lighthearted spirit, it can be a joyful occasion.
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