"What do we live for if it is not to make life less difficult for each other? Since then, I have never treated my relationships the same. I struggle with depression, which can make maintaining balance in a relationship extremely difficult. But if I can say to myself at the end of the day that I have done one thing just one little thing to make his life better, then I feel as if I haven't failed the day entirely. Brandi, North Carolina"
"When I got engaged, I asked my parents who have been married for 40 years what advice they had for me, and my mother offered: Contribute as much as you can to your retirement accounts. OK! Ultimately, every couple (or throuple!) is different what works for some might not work for others. Still, we can always learn from each other. For Valentine's Day, we asked Guardian readers to share their best relationship advice."
Couples have different needs: some benefit from shared hobbies while others thrive with individual interests. Sleep arrangements are a personal choice and can support either closeness or independence. Financial planning matters; contributing to retirement accounts builds long-term security. Small daily acts that make a partner's life easier sustain connection and balance, especially when one partner faces depression. Managing expectations reduces disappointment and creates space to appreciate a partner. Regular laughter eases stress and strengthens bonds. Clear boundaries are essential; no one should accept abuse. Learning from varied approaches helps couples find what works for them.
Read at www.theguardian.com
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