Life in the Rearview Mirror: The Paradox of Mate Selection
Briefly

The choice of a mate is influenced by the interplay of familiarity and challenge, shaping attraction based on childhood experiences and adult preferences.
Psychologist David Perrett found that individuals are often attracted to partners resembling their opposite-sex parent, reflecting the 'mere exposure effect' in romance.
Attachment theory suggests that our early relationships with caregivers create internal working models which influence our romantic partnerships, often confirming existing patterns.
Physical attraction and chemistry frequently cloud judgement when choosing a partner, leading many to overlook critical traits that surface over time.
Read at Psychology Today
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