"Money can be a sensitive topic among friends and even strain relationships. I've been on both sides of the issue at different times in my life. I've been the poor friend passively trying to redirect my friend group's vacation plans to a local winery when everyone else was getting excited about Cancún, and I've been the friend with money pretending not to notice a pal's insinuation that because I make more than they do, I should pick up the tab."
"Submit your question in this Google form. loaning money is losing the friendship. I don't know what to do. Please tell me ways to say NO. I inherited money and invested it. I also worked and invested. Why can't they do the same? money problems. When I travel, I don't tell them, but if they know, they resent it."
Friends may hint, resent, or expect financial help when one person has more money or shares lifestyle details. Loaning money to friends can damage relationships and create ongoing pressure. Establishing clear, consistent financial boundaries protects both personal assets and friendships. Remaining empathetic toward friends' struggles helps maintain respect and connection. Redirecting generosity toward nonprofits preserves values without enabling risky personal lending. Offering nonfinancial support — emotional backing, advice, or practical resources — provides meaningful assistance without compromising finances. Honest, polite refusals and consistent limits reduce guilt and resentment while keeping relationships intact.
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