"I don't want to tell you that you aren't a misogynist because in a male-dominated world, misogyny is like microplastics. It's in practically everything, and you can forget (or easily ignore) that you're actually consuming it."
"Are you actively engaging in women's issues? Are you reading, watching, or listening to thinking from women? Are you donating to causes that support women (specifically their bodily autonomy, as it's something you highlight)? If not, start."
"I do think that it is a promising sign that you're thinking about this and disturbed by the greater implications of your sexual interest. If only everyone would keep themselves in such check, there'd be a lot less mindless infliction of pain."
A nearly 50-year-old man is exploring sexual kinks with his supportive wife, particularly enjoying objectification and degradation. He expresses concern that this interest may reflect underlying misogyny, despite being an ally for women's autonomy. The response emphasizes that misogyny is pervasive and encourages active engagement in women's issues. It suggests that self-reflection and public support for women's rights can help reconcile his interests with his values, highlighting the importance of being aware of societal influences on personal desires.
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