I Was Going Down on the Man I'm Seeing. That's When He Gave Me a Very Unwanted "Surprise."
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I Was Going Down on the Man I'm Seeing. That's When He Gave Me a Very Unwanted "Surprise."
"Jessica Stoya: I cannot begin to deal with the actual question until we discuss what could possibly have been going on between her hair and his semen that she had to resort to cutting some of it off. Rich Juzwiak: Right, that stuck out to me as well. Usually, all you need to do is rinse it. Jessica: I see three possibilities. One, her eyes were closed, and he actually shot her in the face and hair with something that was not semen, which would be so bizarre."
"Two, there's something really, really medically wrong with his semen, in which case, it's a red flag that he has not noticed this. And in that case, there are two options: He has to see a urologist with a semen sample right away, or the relationship needs to end because you can't continue to date someone who has semen so strange that if it gets in your hair, you're going to have to cut your hair, and refuses to see a doctor about it."
A woman hooked up with a man, Liam, who ejaculated onto her face and hair during oral sex without obtaining prior consent. The semen landed in her hair, requiring cutting some hair. Liam apologized, cited existing BDSM elements in their sexual routine, and promised it would not recur. Commentators proposed three possibilities: the fluid was not semen, the semen is medically abnormal and requires urological evaluation, or the woman overreacted. One commentator recommended immediate medical assessment or ending the relationship if semen appears abnormal. The other commentator leaned toward an overreaction interpretation.
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