I Spent the Night at My Boyfriend's Place. Then His Wife Walked in Early From a Business Trip.
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Potential partners may not accurately disclose their marital status, especially if they are involved in infidelity. Engaging in direct questions about relationship structures can feel overwhelming and lead to negative reactions. Instead, weaving questions into natural conversations could be more effective. Conducting online searches may not provide conclusive information either, as it relates to personal truths. Both methods have their drawbacks, and approaching the subject requires tact to avoid pressure and maintain a positive dynamic in budding relationships.
Asking potential partners if they are married can often yield untruthful answers, especially from those already engaged in infidelity. Cheaters may not disclose their status honestly.
People generally react negatively to being interrogated with a series of questions; it can put pressure on a budding relationship. A more organic approach may yield better reactions.
Read at Slate Magazine
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