"Vanilla can be a great flavor, depending on its profile and richness. Definitely trust your partner. Just because she had experience swinging doesn't mean that she has other kinks."
"If anything, you could offer to indulge in some group play, if you're interested. That she might be up for some is the real indication to glean from what you know about her past."
"It may also be useful to check in and see if there's anything she likes that she hasn't tried with you. Let her bring that kind of thing up, and in the meantime, yes, trust her when she says the sex you two have is great."
A 47-year-old man is concerned about his relationship with a 45-year-old woman who is still married. Despite her past experiences with swinging, he is encouraged to trust her when she says their sex life is great. Exploring her past may reveal interests, but he should not pressure her. Open communication about desires is essential, and he should be receptive to her bringing up any new experiences she may want to try together.
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