The article dives into relationship advice surrounding sexual satisfaction and personal validation. A reader shares her journey from a long-term unfulfilling relationship to discovering her capacity for pleasure with a different partner. She expresses frustration with needing verbal affirmation to enjoy sex, questioning her self-worth. The response emphasizes the importance of self-exploration and understanding one's own body for greater sexual fulfillment. The advice encourages taking ownership of personal pleasure rather than relying on partners for validation, highlighting the need for self-empowerment in intimate experiences.
"It seems like you're putting the responsibility for your pleasure and orgasms in the lap of basically anyone who isn't you. It's possible that the type of physical stimulation you're receiving is secondary to being told you're pretty, but my instincts are telling me to be skeptical."
"Do some real self-exploration and figure out how to give yourself great orgasms. Learn how to make yourself come multiple times in a masturbation session. Get a solid understanding of how your body works and what it responds to."
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