The article addresses a concern from a man who struggles with his wife's initiation of sex, as it historically signified distress. The advice emphasizes patience in adjusting to new dynamics, managing assumptions, and actively reframing thoughts. It suggests engaging in mindful practices to differentiate between past associations and current actions. Reflection on the initial dynamics of their relationship also appears, urging the author to consider the existing patterns of agreement as an indication of desire.
You may just need more time to get used to her initiation. This is still new and it can take a while to build up new associations.
Instead, tell yourself to behave as though you would if nothing were wrong. You have plenty of reason to assume that there isn't anything wrong.
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