How Do You Know If You Can Trust Someone?
Briefly

The author, previously a screenwriter, reflects on a disheartening experience with a seemingly warm executive who invited her into her social circle. Despite appearing friendly, the invitation led to disappointment when the executive chose another writer over her, revealing the stark reality that outward friendliness does not guarantee trust or shared values. This encounter instilled a cautiousness in the author regarding personal disclosures. Later on, as a travel journalist, this lesson reinforced a more measured approach to her interactions.
Just because people dress and speak like you do, it doesn't mean they are actually like you, or share your values. You cannot assume their ethical or moral similarity to you.
Even though we just met, we're not strangers. We have a lot in common, and we're like friends.
Read at Psychology Today
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