Help! My Wife Is Over 20 Weeks Pregnant and Still Insists on Keeping It a Secret.
Briefly

In this advice column response, Prudie addresses the concerns of a husband whose wife is reluctant to share their pregnancy news. She acknowledges the wife's apprehensions, highlighting that every pregnancy comes with its own risks and personal sensitivities. Prudie suggests a compromise: each partner could confide in someone from their 'outer circle'—a friend with whom they have a more casual relationship. This approach allows them to share their joy without the pressure of deep emotional ties, helping to alleviate feelings of isolation for the husband.
Many couples choose to share pregnancy news first with trusted acquaintances to ease into the process, allowing them to gauge reactions and find comfort.
Consider sharing your joyful news with an 'outer circle' friend—someone with whom your relationships are straightforward and uncomplicated.
Read at Slate Magazine
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