The column discusses a letter from someone concerned about their boyfriend, who has wet the bed on a few occasions. The letter writer wants to address the issue without shaming him, recognizing the potential anxiety it causes him. The advice emphasizes the importance of communication in a relationship. Prudie suggests approaching the conversation casually, sharing personal experience, and encouraging the boyfriend to seek medical advice if necessary. The advice confirms that acceptance and understanding in intimate relationships are crucial for both partners' comfort and emotional security.
"One of the loveliest things about intimacy is being accepted despite the least lovely things about us. Although you dread this conversation, ultimately it will relieve him."
"Tell him in a low-key way that on a couple of occasions you noticed the bed was wet. Explain you're very familiar with this issue because your brother experienced it."
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