In the latest installment of Dear Prudence, a reader shares her experience of discovering she has ADHD at 61, which reframed her understanding of procrastination and time management. She suggests that the partner of an inveterate procrastinator consider being tested for ADHD, enhancing their awareness beyond personal shortcomings. Prudence acknowledges the reader's insights and emphasizes that the discussion should focus on how these behaviors affect the individual, not just others. The replies highlight empathy, self-discovery, and the importance of addressing underlying conditions in relationships, encouraging a supportive approach to understanding personal challenges.
I found out last year, at age 61, that I had ADHD. I thought your answer was very helpful, but it might also be helpful for her to be tested.
I appreciate this advice: not just 'how rude and inconvenient this is to others,' but how hard it is on you.
Knowing that it is a condition rather than a shortcoming helped me feel more positive about making changes.
I'm glad you got some answers and a new way of thinking about time management.
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