"I've seen her make time to hang with some of our mutual friends, but for some reason, she hasn't extended an invite to me. I tried to address it, but she said she didn't think I'd be interested. I don't like that she made that decision for me (on more than one occasion, I might add). I'm trying to avoid focusing on the feelings of being left out."
"Research neighboring towns that may be more social than where you live. Find out what activities are going on there in the evenings and on weekends. Sign up for classes. Go to the theater. Put yourself in environments with other people so that you can meet potential new friends. Do not dwell on your former friends and associates who are not including you in their lives. Build your own life anew. The key is putting yourself out there."
An individual moved to a new neighborhood and spent months alone making their house a home. A friend moved nearby but has not reciprocated invitations, often choosing to socialize with mutual acquaintances and assuming disinterest. The individual feels left out and is redirecting energy toward self-care and independent activities. Advice recommends researching neighboring towns for social activities, signing up for classes, attending theater, and placing oneself in group environments to meet potential friends. The guidance warns against dwelling on former connections and emphasizes rebuilding life by actively putting oneself out there. A second correspondent reports a career pivot from behind-the-scenes operations to a more visible, creative role and expresses worry about readiness.
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