A person from a large family feels pressured by siblings who rely on them for financial help, creating a sense of overwhelm. Despite wanting to support their family, they struggle with feelings of guilt and selfishness when setting boundaries. Recognizing that family members have not attempted to improve their financial situations, the individual seeks a way to balance generosity with the need for personal financial stability, suggesting the establishment of limited resources for support to encourage independence.
Set aside a specific amount of money that you are willing to share with your family. Let them know that you have allocated limited resources to help them, but when it's gone, they are on their own.
Being firm while remaining generous is a way you can live with yourself and help them to become more independent.
I don't want to create tension in the family, but I also can't be everyone's safety net forever.
When I say no or try to set boundaries, they make me feel guilty or call me selfish.
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