"First of all, I don't consider it snooping to look up someone online. It is common practice and not the same thing as riffling through his phone or his belongings. You found Superdad. What else did you see on his socials? Is he also a husband? Look again to learn more about this man from his posts, and then absolutely speak to him about your discoveries."
"You can tell him the truth: You were telling a friend about him and the two of you looked him up. Express how surprised you were when you learned that he has five children even though he told you about only one. Ask him to tell you who he is and why he thought it was necessary to hide the fact that he has five children from you."
A woman met a man on a subway; they connected, he said he used to play sports overseas and was opening a restaurant, and invited her to a food tasting. She later learned via social media that he is captioned "Superdad, father of 5" despite having told her he has a daughter. She felt deceived and wondered whether to ghost him after learning by searching. The advice is that searching someone online is common and acceptable; she should review his posts, then tell him the truth about how she found the information, ask why he hid the extent of his parenthood, and evaluate whether their values align before deciding.
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