Harriette Cole: I met my boyfriend through work, and now I'm hearing rumors about him
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Harriette Cole: I met my boyfriend through work, and now I'm hearing rumors about him
"If you truly love this man, suck it up and look past how you got to this place. It can be unsettling to know that you fell for a line. Believe it or not, the pressure is on for men to know what to say to get women to give them the time of day. Many men have lines that they use over and over. Like fishing, occasionally they attract someone."
"DEAR HARRIETTE: I'm struggling with my new assistant, who consistently seems distracted and disengaged at work. She rarely responds to emails or messages in a timely manner, and I often have to follow up repeatedly just to get basic updates on projects she's responsible for. Tasks that should be straightforward take much longer than expected, and it's starting to affect team workflow and my own stress levels. I've tried to be patient and supportive, assuming she might be overwhelmed or adjusting,"
A woman discovers her boyfriend used the same flattering line on many female coworkers before they dated, causing embarrassment but no infidelity; she wonders if that justifies breaking up. Advice recommends forgiving rehearsed pickup lines when genuine affection exists and when the relationship is otherwise working. A separate narrator reports an assistant who is distracted, slow to respond, requires repeated follow-ups, and whose delays are harming team workflow and increasing stress. The narrator has attempted patience and support but regards the behavior as a persistent pattern rather than occasional lapses.
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